Very good advise!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from a heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.

Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes
you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can’t be friends
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.

Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably

Don’t stay because you think “it will get better”
You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different woman.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you
any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.

Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…
even if he has a better education or a better job.

Do not make him a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else’s man.
If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You need time to heal between relationships….there is nothing
cute about baggage….
deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you..
a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals
look for someone complimentary.. not supplementary

Dating is fun …..even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always knows where you
are, and your always readily available to him – he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man